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Post by --sumana13-- on 2013-08-13, 10:20

Qubool Hai gives you many shades of love and yet it makes you wonder what is love? Is love what Rashid Ahmed Khan (Vaquar Shaikh) feels for Dilshad Ahmed Khan (Shalini Kapoor)? Or is love what Shireen Ahmed Khan (Shabnam Sayed) feels for Rashid? If Rashid loved Dilshad, why did he get involved with another woman? And once Shireen came to know that Rashid was married, why did her love become so selfish to bind him to her rather than sacrifice? Hard to tell. Once has to perhaps go through the circumstance to understand how one reacted and why.


Now, we have Humeira Siddiqui (Ketki Kadam) who is in love with Ayaan Ahmed Khan (Vikrant Massey) but one rejection from him and she ran away (of course, we know that it is all Razia Begum instigating), however, what love is this, which will leave the one you love because he does not love you back. Humeira though instinctively sought refuge with Ayaan when in trouble. Is that what love is? Trust, even when you think the other person is unknown entity, but your heart somewhere knows, that is the person who is perhaps your soulmate?





The new love birds we find in the show are Najma Ahmed Khan (Nehalaxmi Iyer) and Imraan (Vikram Singh Chauhan). Post drama where Nikhat Ahmed Khan (Archana Taide), who raised her voice against being abused by her to be mother-in-law Haseena Bi (Nishi Singh), the wedding that has always been like a see-saw between happening and not-happening from start of the show, just might not happen. Does Imraan love Najma to the level to want to fight for her or is Najma not strong enough to voice her choice to her family? Is love strong enough to give the strength to these lovers or is it destined to doom? Of course, one wonders, where Tanveer (Amrapali Gupta) fits in all this? But then we are talking about what is love and Tanveer only seeks money.





Without digressing, one would tell, love is what Asad Ahmed Khan (Karan Singh Grover) and Zoya Farooqui (Surbhi Jyoti) feel for each other. And that is one type of love. Pure and yes not simple. It is as complicated as it gets. But yes, for a man who can keep control on himself despite his attraction to the lady and ask her for one wish, to watch her sleep all night before their wedding is a love that goes beyond the realm of physical. And how are they going to keep this control? Well, romantic as these two are, he gazes at her sleeping on a video call.




However, the question remains, What is love? Is the show giving you a glimpse of what love is or could be and do you hope for a love like any of them or have a love that is like Asad and Zoya's in your life?



What is love according to you? To attain the one you love, to sacrifice for the love, to pine in love rather than spend life with the one you love or is there no definition that binds a feeling that has the capability to take you to heights never reached and depths never fathomed at one and the same time?




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Post by A.N.Jell_Zarina on 2013-08-13, 10:22

love is when I love u
one true time I hold u Heart 

near far where ever u r I believe that's the heart does go on :) 

for me love is ipk  :)

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Post by --sumana13-- on 2013-08-13, 10:33

aasudi wrote:love is when I love u
one true time I hold u Heart 

near far where ever u r I believe that's the heart does go on :) 

for me love is ipk  :)
Aasudi ....for me love is when you feel immensely when thinking about some one.. feeling happy when you meet her and it is usually mutual .... one sided love is not happiness for me ....


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Post by perfumeheaven on 2013-08-13, 14:38

Love is when you see him, your problems and troubles seems to disappear. You feel deliriously happy. Spending time together means time does not exist, but when he has to leave a part of you feels anguished and you feel  a tingling pain of yearning.


You laugh at everything he tells you because you catch a bout of mad happiness. He cries.... you feel the pain too and would do everything in your power including sacrifice to improve the circumstance to make it the way it was or better.


We would talk for hours and hours about everything and when it is over, you remember nothing. You would feel tired and sleepy at nights yet you hold on for dear life not wanting him to leave.


He would animatedly talk and talk and you would just look at him and sigh! This is love! This is what it is like to be in love with love.


Love matures with time, you get married and all the actions is done with love and not service. You reminisce the "old days" of romance which no longer continued. He is now the lover, the best friend, the confidante and the  one you look forward to waking up each day with. He is the one you reach out too when in need.


Love changes with time.... a guy once told me love has three stages ...chemistry....compromise......companionship....

Courtesy~ Zai~

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Post by pollyanna on 2013-08-13, 15:19

perfumeheaven wrote:Love is when you see him, your problems and troubles seems to disappear. You feel deliriously happy. Spending time together means time does not exist, but when he has to leave a part of you feels anguished and you feel  a tingling pain of yearning.


You laugh at everything he tells you because you catch a bout of mad happiness. He cries.... you feel the pain too and would do everything in your power including sacrifice to improve the circumstance to make it the way it was or better.


We would talk for hours and hours about everything and when it is over, you remember nothing. You would feel tired and sleepy at nights yet you hold on for dear life not wanting him to leave.


He would animatedly talk and talk and you would just look at him and sigh! This is love! This is what it is like to be in love with love.


Love matures with time, you get married and all the actions is done with love and not service. You reminisce the "old days" of romance which no longer continued. He is now the lover, the best friend, the confidante and the  one you look forward to waking up each day with. He is the one you reach out too when in need.


Love changes with time.... a guy once told me love has three stages ...chemistry....compromise......companionship....

Courtesy~ Zai~
 WOW!!!! LOVED it :) :) Thumbsup

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Post by pollyanna on 2013-08-13, 15:19

--sumana13-- wrote:
aasudi wrote:love is when I love u
one true time I hold u Heart 

near far where ever u r I believe that's the heart does go on :) 

for me love is ipk  :)
Aasudi ....for me love is when you feel immensely when thinking about some one.. feeling happy when you meet her and it is usually mutual .... one sided love is not happiness for me ....

 Manu, Aasudi :) cheers

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Post by A.N.Jell_Zarina on 2013-08-13, 15:22

--sumana13-- wrote:
aasudi wrote:love is when I love u
one true time I hold u Heart 

near far where ever u r I believe that's the heart does go on :) 

for me love is ipk  :)
Aasudi ....for me love is when you feel immensely when thinking about some one.. feeling happy when you meet her and it is usually mutual .... one sided love is not happiness for me ....

suman for me love didn't need to b two way

love is when I love explains everything I guess

by ipk I dnt mean I love ipk so ipk is my love

I say when I watch ipk I find love everywhere

when Anjali pouts at her brother that's love for me

when arnav's eyes hurts for khushi's pain that is love for me

when lavanya moves out of arnav's life that is love

and lots of others things which I cnt define

love is everything which is in this world ....... will I b able to define what is love and where is love ?
no

and if I m to define it in terms of something then it is ipk for me ........ 

again  I will say love is when I love u one true time I hold u

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Post by --sumana13-- on 2013-08-14, 11:12

aasudi wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
aasudi wrote:love is when I love u
one true time I hold u Heart 

near far where ever u r I believe that's the heart does go on :) 

for me love is ipk  :)
Aasudi ....for me love is when you feel immensely when thinking about some one.. feeling happy when you meet her and it is usually mutual .... one sided love is not happiness for me ....

suman for me love didn't need to b two way

love is when I love explains everything I guess

by ipk I dnt mean I love ipk so ipk is my love

I say when I watch ipk I find love everywhere

when Anjali pouts at her brother that's love for me

when arnav's eyes hurts for khushi's pain that is love for me

when lavanya moves out of arnav's life that is love

and lots of others things which I cnt define

love is everything which is in this world ....... will I b able to define what is love and where is love ?
no

and if I m to define it in terms of something then it is ipk for me ........ 

again  I will say love is when I love u one true time I hold u
 Awesome feelings Aasudi ...thanks for sharing ...

I never felt that way for anyone yet ....so cant say ...have been always loved back by whom soever I loved ....



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Post by --sumana13-- on 2013-08-14, 11:17

perfumeheaven wrote:Love is when you see him, your problems and troubles seems to disappear. You feel deliriously happy. Spending time together means time does not exist, but when he has to leave a part of you feels anguished and you feel  a tingling pain of yearning.


You laugh at everything he tells you because you catch a bout of mad happiness. He cries.... you feel the pain too and would do everything in your power including sacrifice to improve the circumstance to make it the way it was or better.


We would talk for hours and hours about everything and when it is over, you remember nothing. You would feel tired and sleepy at nights yet you hold on for dear life not wanting him to leave.


He would animatedly talk and talk and you would just look at him and sigh! This is love! This is what it is like to be in love with love.


Love matures with time, you get married and all the actions is done with love and not service. You reminisce the "old days" of romance which no longer continued. He is now the lover, the best friend, the confidante and the  one you look forward to waking up each day with. He is the one you reach out too when in need.


Love changes with time.... a guy once told me love has three stages ...chemistry....compromise......companionship....

Courtesy~ Zai~
 Looks like Zainab has been very lucky to meet your soul mate ... how wonderful it must be yaara .... may Allah bless you an eternity of love and togetherness ....

                                     

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Post by perfumeheaven on 2013-08-14, 13:06

--sumana13-- wrote:
perfumeheaven wrote:Love is when you see him, your problems and troubles seems to disappear. You feel deliriously happy. Spending time together means time does not exist, but when he has to leave a part of you feels anguished and you feel  a tingling pain of yearning.


You laugh at everything he tells you because you catch a bout of mad happiness. He cries.... you feel the pain too and would do everything in your power including sacrifice to improve the circumstance to make it the way it was or better.


We would talk for hours and hours about everything and when it is over, you remember nothing. You would feel tired and sleepy at nights yet you hold on for dear life not wanting him to leave.


He would animatedly talk and talk and you would just look at him and sigh! This is love! This is what it is like to be in love with love.


Love matures with time, you get married and all the actions is done with love and not service. You reminisce the "old days" of romance which no longer continued. He is now the lover, the best friend, the confidante and the  one you look forward to waking up each day with. He is the one you reach out too when in need.


Love changes with time.... a guy once told me love has three stages ...chemistry....compromise......companionship....

Courtesy~ Zai~
 Looks like Zainab has been very lucky to meet your soul mate ... how wonderful it must be yaara .... may Allah bless you an eternity of love and togetherness ....

                                     
JazakAllah Khair...yes dear I believe I have and may Allah grant you the same :)

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