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Post by SAYAN18 on 2013-10-21, 21:52

After today's episode, I was confused. 
In which part of India, future Father-in-law /
Mother-in-law washes feet of future Son-in-law ?
So I posted my opinion on Twitter -

[ltr]
#IPKKND2
. In which part of India washes feet of future Son-In-Law? The show is watched worldwide. What msg carry to them?[/ltr]


Replies were ( till now )

[ltr]
@akd58
 Mostly In south indian tamil bramin weddings happen like this...[/ltr]

[ltr]
@akd58
 Even traditional telugu family weddings. father in law do like this. but im not sure about north indian wedding culture.[/ltr]

[ltr]
@akd58
 its a ritual in many Indian cultures n its not a harm to anyone's self respect[/ltr]


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Re: Serious Kostin ?

Post by Shesherkobita on 2013-10-21, 22:00

I would wash his feet if my daughter married someone like Barun Sobti... :lol!: 

Kaisa laga my serious answer?

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Post by SAYAN18 on 2013-10-21, 22:05

Shesherkobita wrote:I would wash his feet if my daughter married someone like Barun Sobti... :lol!: 

Kaisa laga my serious answer?
Your definition of Mr. Right and her definition may differ.

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Re: Serious Kostin ?

Post by Shesherkobita on 2013-10-21, 22:23

SAYAN18 wrote:
Shesherkobita wrote:I would wash his feet if my daughter married someone like Barun Sobti... :lol!: 

Kaisa laga my serious answer?
Your definition of Mr. Right and her definition may differ.
It will definitely differ... She doesn't like BS anyways. Jamai baba gets all the pampering in our culture...... If I had to wash his feet , I'd make sure I make TEA with the same water and feed it to him ....cheers

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Post by anusha.cochin on 2013-10-21, 22:26

Shesherkobita wrote:I would wash his feet if my daughter married someone like Barun Sobti... :lol!: 

Kaisa laga my serious answer?
cheers  Lol

was missing u

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Re: Serious Kostin ?

Post by anusha.cochin on 2013-10-21, 22:27

AK

I havent seen such customs n Kerala

and I dnt thnk such a custom exist n Brahmins here, not sure abt Tamil Brahmins

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Re: Serious Kostin ?

Post by Shesherkobita on 2013-10-21, 22:30

Anuuuuu.... Hoping to be regular soon.... My SIL is coming to visit us .... 

Isn't Shlok's family Marathi? Maybe it's a Marathi custom. Ashtha's mom says they don't practice that ritual... So it must be a very old ritual.

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Post by SAYAN18 on 2013-10-21, 22:34

May be invented by the CV's.

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Post by Abavi on 2013-10-21, 23:03

Shesherkobita wrote:I would wash his feet if my daughter married someone like Barun Sobti... :lol!: 

Kaisa laga my serious answer?
Super .. lage raho...

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Post by Shesherkobita on 2013-10-21, 23:08

Abavi wrote:
Shesherkobita wrote:I would wash his feet if my daughter married someone like Barun Sobti... :lol!: 

Kaisa laga my serious answer?
Super .. lage raho...
Vi are you watching this show ? long hug .... I am shameless when it comes to BS.

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Post by --sumana13-- on 2013-10-21, 23:35

Shesherkobita wrote:I would wash his feet if my daughter married someone like Barun Sobti... :lol!: 

Kaisa laga my serious answer?
But Sabrina !! How would you drool on BS then ?? If he became your SIL . After marrying your daughter ?? ..scratch scratch 

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Re: Serious Kostin ?

Post by Shesherkobita on 2013-10-21, 23:38

--sumana13-- wrote:
Shesherkobita wrote:I would wash his feet if my daughter married someone like Barun Sobti... :lol!: 

Kaisa laga my serious answer?
But Sabrina !!  How would you drool on BS then ?? If he became your SIL . After marrying your daughter ?? ..scratch scratch 
I guess... I'll have to drool from a distance .... Story of my life....:cry: 

Moja korey lekha Sumana.... Just kidding!

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Re: Serious Kostin ?

Post by abi_niki on 2013-10-21, 23:49

SAYAN18 wrote:May be invented by the CV's.
Is it necessary to do that?

Mrs. Anjali Agni is too much.... throw milk on her DIL's face.... But what happened today? DIL throw water on her face...
              

Still I am confused is she good or bad?

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Re: Serious Kostin ?

Post by --sumana13-- on 2013-10-22, 00:13

abi_niki wrote:
SAYAN18 wrote:May be invented by the CV's.
Is it necessary to do that?

Mrs. Anjali Agni is too much.... throw milk on her DIL's face.... But what happened today? DIL throw water on her face...
              

Still I am confused is she good or bad?
I am in the same boat yaara Abi ...

Dunno who is white... Who is grey ...and who is dark ... Every thing is under layers and layers of shades .... Waiting to unfold ... Or may be it is supposed to remain a mystery and unanswered like the IPK season one's numerous unanswered questions !!....

confused confused 

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Re: Serious Kostin ?

Post by Shesherkobita on 2013-10-22, 00:37

abi_niki wrote:
SAYAN18 wrote:May be invented by the CV's.
Is it necessary to do that?

Mrs. Anjali Agni is too much.... throw milk on her DIL's face.... But what happened today? DIL throw water on her face...
              

Still I am confused is she good or bad?
Ha ha thats True Abi... she got a wash out today  and Astha also said ( just before throwing the water) that she will keep doing this when she gets married. Twisted Evil

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Post by sarra0 on 2013-10-22, 04:01

I have never seen it before, I thou it may have been made up for this show...but it actually happens does it.. wonder if they did it for Jyoti's husband wen they got married...can c Anjali doing it no problem...

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Re: Serious Kostin ?

Post by sealove00 on 2013-10-22, 08:05

In Gujarati tradition we wash the son in-law's feet.

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Re: Serious Kostin ?

Post by --sumana13-- on 2013-10-22, 08:56

Shesherkobita wrote:
abi_niki wrote:
SAYAN18 wrote:May be invented by the CV's.
Is it necessary to do that?

Mrs. Anjali Agni is too much.... throw milk on her DIL's face.... But what happened today? DIL throw water on her face...
              

Still I am confused is she good or bad?
Ha ha thats True Abi... she got a wash out today  and Astha also said ( just before throwing the water) that she will keep doing this when she gets married. Twisted Evil
ROFL the hot headed Anjali will get a much needed cooling wash by her bubbly bahu at least once a week !! Wow I can hardly wait to watch that hapen yaara .....

Lovely thread ... Thanks AK ...

:lol!: :lol!: 

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Re: Serious Kostin ?

Post by slmu on 2013-10-22, 11:45

We do, but as part of the wedding rituals not the engagement.

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Post by A.N.Jell_Zarina on 2013-10-22, 12:02

Shesherkobita wrote:I would wash his feet if my daughter married someone like Barun Sobti... :lol!: 

Kaisa laga my serious answer?
same here sabi!! Hugs...
@AK
i dnt knw abt india...but in our culture FIL washes SIL n Daughter's feet at 'dulhan return'(first welcome after marriage in maternal home)...n also FIL has to drink that water...yuck!! I m against it...also, wives has to do the same, drink husband's feet-washed water to break her fasts... Its disgusting i must say...do hell wth culture, i m not doing that neither letting my dad do that

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Re: Serious Kostin ?

Post by --sumana13-- on 2013-10-22, 12:09

Ak does this Shlok have no respect for his elders ?? He is brought up in a modern society .. He did not have any  objection to those elders washing his feet ?? He was actually expecting to get his feet washed .. He even placed his foot into the big brass bowl which was placed before him .... This is not done ... He did not behave like the present modern Generation ... 



He should  have been the first one o protest against it ...

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Post by sameersaagar on 2013-10-22, 20:36

I have heard of this, but what could be the reason for this type of ritual.

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Post by slmu on 2013-10-22, 20:41

sameersaagar wrote:I have heard of this, but what could be the reason for this type of ritual.
who knows Rolling Eyes .. its just one of many rituals.. heaven knows if there is really a reason.

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