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Post by -Sheena- on Thu Apr 11, 2013 8:40 pm

Despite the marriage taking place, I do think that the bride's family did the right thing by leaving with their daughter...As parents of a bride/girl they have to put their child's interest first and not worry what society says or what her status is currently (ie being the wife of Madhav)...They remained unaware of whom their daughter was marrying and it unfair for them to just accept the change of groom based on sentiments...

However, the crux of the episode was dedicated to Bharti and her dislike for MIL, Rahul and of course Aaradhya...I can understand she feels humiliated that the Bride's family left the wedding but her continuous spilling of sermon was uncalled for...Here is a woman who thinks that she holds the key to morality, values and socially decency yet everything she says has a hint of being an hypocrite...She blamed Rahul and her MIL for masterminding and devaluing her yet she never questioned Madhav who was an equal player in the plan...She conveniently left him out of her tirade...

She actually found a cause to be able to taunt and even though her husband tried to reign her anger, she remained defiant in her stance for her hatred towards MIL, Rahul and Aaradhya...I am actually not sure what she is more upset about? Its seems very unclear of her motive for her anger....She has deep rooted resentment towards her MIL, Rahul especially and as a DIL her treatment towards her own MIL is at times appalling...Its actually strange that when MIL collapsed during Bharti's accusation that she was concerned about her health...I understand her anger and disappointment but she should have been more tactful in her approach...Madhav should not have been part of her anger and not excluded from her sermons...

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Post by slmu on Fri Apr 12, 2013 1:09 pm

Nice Sheena..

Bharti's tirade was understandable to the extent that the marriage was engineered without her knowledge. Aradhya's father (Lalit?) specifically targeted her in his vitriol so it stung. And yes, the family's honor was questioned.

But, I disagree that Madhav should have been a target too. Madhav had no knowledge that Aradhya did not know she was marrying him. He also did not know that Bharti did not know. His fault in this was that he went ahead with the plan, instead of suggesting that they talk openly with everyone. To this extent, yes he should have been included.

Also, her relative ignorance of Aradhya's situation was irritating. Yes, she acknowledged that Aradhya was also in a bad position, but for her it was more about herself, the family's honor and Madhav.


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Post by sarra0 on Fri Apr 12, 2013 1:13 pm

Was the marriage not held at the girls side? They r putting the child ahead of society, they know she was shocked, they don't expect her to want to stay in the marriage as they know her, and they r not considering wat society will say. They r shocked as well and it was not them who made a joke out of the marriage rituals. They would not expect a chance of groom mid way through the ceremony especially wen they have seen Rahul for the other rituals. Sorry the last line in the first paragraph confused me wat do you mean?

Bharti's character remained as unprincipled as being shown. She is prejudiced, yes she had a rite to b angry but her tirade showed she is as khokli as she accuses others of being.

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Post by slmu on Fri Apr 12, 2013 1:15 pm

Sarra, yes, the wedding was held at Aradhya's house. And it was Madhav and family who left.

Bharti is totally prejudiced.. her tirade was more about loss of face rather than anything else.

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Post by sarra0 on Fri Apr 12, 2013 1:17 pm

slmu wrote:Nice Sheena..

Bharti's tirade was understandable to the extent that the marriage was engineered without her knowledge. Aradhya's father (Lalit?) specifically targeted her in his vitriol so it stung. And yes, the family's honor was questioned.

But, I disagree that Madhav should have been a target too. Madhav had no knowledge that Aradhya did not know she was marrying him. He also did not know that Bharti did not know. His fault in this was that he went ahead with the plan, instead of suggesting that they talk openly with everyone. To this extent, yes he should have been included.

Also, her relative ignorance of Aradhya's situation was irritating. Yes, she acknowledged that Aradhya was also in a bad position, but for her it was more about herself, the family's honor and Madhav.


Going of wat was shown she was told by Madhav that he asked for Rahul's help..He went with the plan, sorry I was bored the day before didn't pay much attention, was it mentioned that madhav did not know that Aradhya or family wasn't aware of it? Cause if unprincipled lady thinks he went along with it then part of the blame should also fall on him.

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Re: Bharti's Sermon - Attack,with Words

Post by slmu on Fri Apr 12, 2013 1:21 pm

sarra0 wrote:
slmu wrote:Nice Sheena..

Bharti's tirade was understandable to the extent that the marriage was engineered without her knowledge. Aradhya's father (Lalit?) specifically targeted her in his vitriol so it stung. And yes, the family's honor was questioned.

But, I disagree that Madhav should have been a target too. Madhav had no knowledge that Aradhya did not know she was marrying him. He also did not know that Bharti did not know. His fault in this was that he went ahead with the plan, instead of suggesting that they talk openly with everyone. To this extent, yes he should have been included.

Also, her relative ignorance of Aradhya's situation was irritating. Yes, she acknowledged that Aradhya was also in a bad position, but for her it was more about herself, the family's honor and Madhav.


Going of wat was shown she was told by Madhav that he asked for Rahul's help..He went with the plan, sorry I was bored the day before didn't pay much attention, was it mentioned that madhav did not know that Aradhya or family wasn't aware of it? Cause if unprincipled lady thinks he went along with it then part of the blame should also fall on him.

It was pretty clear that Madhav did not know that Aradhya did not know it was him.. he is led to believe that she is happy marrying him and so he went along.

He should have been included because he went along with it.. which Bharti completely ignored. She was angry that he fell in love with Aradhya but that was it.

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Post by sarra0 on Fri Apr 12, 2013 1:24 pm

slmu wrote:Sarra, yes, the wedding was held at Aradhya's house. And it was Madhav and family who left.

Bharti is totally prejudiced.. her tirade was more about loss of face rather than anything else.

Yep Shanthi.. i can understand that she is worried about loosing face, society is not kind and people love to gossip and tell stories. But she couldn't understand why the bride's side were angry, she couldn't understand y they spoke to her and the family like that. And the bride and devastation that it would caused her was overlooked.. her character was not redeemed yesterday, but i suppose that's how they want to show it.. this is going to b a journey for her as well, one i don't particularly want to watch lol

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