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Post by --sumana13-- on 2014-07-31, 21:41

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Shanthi what if Aastha loves this man in spite of all the tortures he has put her thru ?? what if she loves Shlok in spite of his abusive behaviour ??
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She already does doesn't she? She has no self respect
Is it possible for a girl  to love some one so much that the pain suffered due to him  does not hurt her at all ??is love so blind ??she does not want to leave him in spite of everything ??
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its not possible to love such a man..u develop such hatred which never can be removed..this is purely illogical stupidity they are showing  Bang Bang 
But Shanthi,Zu .. they say naa.... that when one is in love nothing else matters even ones hurt is forgotten ?? ...everything else ceases to be of any importance ??... may be Aastha is in that kind of love ??
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Re: SBS IPK EBP 31Jul14 "Shlok meets Anjani in Filmy style & Jyoti ki Haldi" WU+VU

Post by zuzana on 2014-07-31, 21:43

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zuzana wrote:
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She already does doesn't she? She has no self respect
Is it possible for a girl  to love some one so much that the pain suffered due to him  does not hurt her at all ??is love so blind ??she does not want to leave him in spite of everything ??
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its not possible to love such a man..u develop such hatred which never can be removed..this is purely illogical stupidity they are showing  Bang Bang 

agree Zu.. its so illogical.. and all these young girls develop all these romantic ideas and think that men like Shlok are fantastic.

exactly what a disservice to society  Bang 


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Post by zuzana on 2014-07-31, 21:46

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zuzana wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
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She already does doesn't she? She has no self respect
Is it possible for a girl  to love some one so much that the pain suffered due to him  does not hurt her at all ??is love so blind ??she does not want to leave him in spite of everything ??
 scratch  scratch

its not possible to love such a man..u develop such hatred which never can be removed..this is purely illogical stupidity they are showing  Bang Bang 

it is possible, people do...they love that much that they put up wit anything...wat ever torture is dished out..

not if they have the support like aastha had..she had loving parents and she herself was well educated who could go and take help outside or could have just moved out and lived seperately
I think people sometimes put up because they dont receive any support from others...and developing love for someone like that is beyond comprehension...then there must be pshychological problems

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Post by slmu on 2014-07-31, 21:47

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zuzana wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
slmu wrote:

She already does doesn't she? She has no self respect
Is it possible for a girl  to love some one so much that the pain suffered due to him  does not hurt her at all ??is love so blind ??she does not want to leave him in spite of everything ??
 scratch  scratch

its not possible to love such a man..u develop such hatred which never can be removed..this is purely illogical stupidity they are showing  Bang Bang 

it is possible, people do...they love that much that they put up wit anything...wat ever torture is dished out..

yes it maybe true.. but doesn't make it right for shows to glamourise such violence.. all the impressionable young girls think its acceptable

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Post by slmu on 2014-07-31, 21:48

--sumana13-- wrote:
zuzana wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
slmu wrote:

She already does doesn't she? She has no self respect
Is it possible for a girl  to love some one so much that the pain suffered due to him  does not hurt her at all ??is love so blind ??she does not want to leave him in spite of everything ??
 scratch  scratch

its not possible to love such a man..u develop such hatred which never can be removed..this is purely illogical stupidity they are showing  Bang Bang 
But Shanthi,Zu .. they say naa.... that when one is in love nothing else matters even ones hurt is forgotten ?? ...everything else ceases to be of any importance ??... may be Aastha is in that kind of love ??
 scratch  scratch  scratch

abuse is abuse whether you put up with it or not.. its not right just because you are in love with the man he does anything to you.. its despicable

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Post by --sumana13-- on 2014-07-31, 21:53

zuzana wrote:
sarra0 wrote:
zuzana wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
Is it possible for a girl  to love some one so much that the pain suffered due to him  does not hurt her at all ??is love so blind ??she does not want to leave him in spite of everything ??
 scratch  scratch

its not possible to love such a man..u develop such hatred which never can be removed..this is purely illogical stupidity they are showing  Bang Bang 

it is possible, people do...they love that much that they put up wit anything...wat ever torture is dished out..

not if they have the support like aastha had..she had loving parents and she herself was well educated who could go and take help outside or could have just moved out and lived seperately
I think people sometimes put up because they dont receive any support from others...and developing love for someone like that is beyond comprehension...then there must be pshychological problems
Zu, SHanthi ?? do you think AAstha has serious psychological problems ?? because she is blind to the tortures she has suffered ??
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Post by zuzana on 2014-07-31, 21:57

--sumana13-- wrote:
zuzana wrote:
sarra0 wrote:
zuzana wrote:

its not possible to love such a man..u develop such hatred which never can be removed..this is purely illogical stupidity they are showing  Bang Bang 

it is possible, people do...they love that much that they put up wit anything...wat ever torture is dished out..

not if they have the support like aastha had..she had loving parents and she herself was well educated who could go and take help outside or could have just moved out and lived seperately
I think people sometimes put up because they dont receive any support from others...and developing love for someone like that is beyond comprehension...then there must be pshychological problems
Zu, SHanthi ?? do you think AAstha has serious psychological problems ?? because she is blind to the tortures she has suffered ??
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aastha is a fictional character...so the makers are not showing the reality...what aastha is doing is not happening in real world and especially the way they are showing it as a beautiful thing is def not anywhere appeitising

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Re: SBS IPK EBP 31Jul14 "Shlok meets Anjani in Filmy style & Jyoti ki Haldi" WU+VU

Post by slmu on 2014-07-31, 22:04

zuzana wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
zuzana wrote:
sarra0 wrote:

it is possible, people do...they love that much that they put up wit anything...wat ever torture is dished out..

not if they have the support like aastha had..she had loving parents and she herself was well educated who could go and take help outside or could have just moved out and lived seperately
I think people sometimes put up because they dont receive any support from others...and developing love for someone like that is beyond comprehension...then there must be pshychological problems
Zu, SHanthi ?? do you think AAstha has serious psychological problems ?? because she is blind to the tortures she has suffered ??
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aastha is a fictional character...so the makers are not showing the reality...what aastha is doing is not happening in real world and especially the way they are showing it as a beautiful thing is def not anywhere appeitising

exactly.. Aastha is not real.. and you can't compare what she does to reality or try to imagine reality based on her

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Post by --sumana13-- on 2014-07-31, 22:11

slmu wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
zuzana wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
Is it possible for a girl  to love some one so much that the pain suffered due to him  does not hurt her at all ??is love so blind ??she does not want to leave him in spite of everything ??
 scratch  scratch

its not possible to love such a man..u develop such hatred which never can be removed..this is purely illogical stupidity they are showing  Bang Bang 
But Shanthi,Zu .. they say naa.... that when one is in love nothing else matters even ones hurt is forgotten ?? ...everything else ceases to be of any importance ??... may be Aastha is in that kind of love ??
 scratch  scratch  scratch

abuse is abuse whether you put up with it or not.. its not right just because you are in love with the man he does anything to you.. its despicable
So one must love as long as the other person loves us back if not it is not love ?? If the other person really loved you he would not torture/abuse you ...or give you pain am I right ??..So what does Shlok feel for Aastha ?? 
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Post by zuzana on 2014-07-31, 22:19

slmu wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
zuzana wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
Is it possible for a girl  to love some one so much that the pain suffered due to him  does not hurt her at all ??is love so blind ??she does not want to leave him in spite of everything ??
 scratch  scratch

its not possible to love such a man..u develop such hatred which never can be removed..this is purely illogical stupidity they are showing  Bang Bang 
But Shanthi,Zu .. they say naa.... that when one is in love nothing else matters even ones hurt is forgotten ?? ...everything else ceases to be of any importance ??... may be Aastha is in that kind of love ??
 scratch  scratch  scratch

abuse is abuse whether you put up with it or not.. its not right just because you are in love with the man he does anything to you.. its despicable

my kostin is she cant love such a person and if really any hubby behaved like shlok did with aastha he would have got chappals by now  Bang Bang 

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Post by slmu on 2014-07-31, 22:21

--sumana13-- wrote:
slmu wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
zuzana wrote:

its not possible to love such a man..u develop such hatred which never can be removed..this is purely illogical stupidity they are showing  Bang Bang 
But Shanthi,Zu .. they say naa.... that when one is in love nothing else matters even ones hurt is forgotten ?? ...everything else ceases to be of any importance ??... may be Aastha is in that kind of love ??
 scratch  scratch  scratch

abuse is abuse whether you put up with it or not.. its not right just because you are in love with the man he does anything to you.. its despicable
So one must love as long as the other person loves us back if not it is not love ?? If the other person really loved you he would not torture/abuse you ...or give you pain am I right ??..So what does Shlok feel for Aastha ?? 
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simple Manu.. would you do this to a person you loved? I have no idea what Shlok feels for Aastha.. probably a satisfaction in ownership that he can do anything and get away with it.

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Post by --sumana13-- on 2014-07-31, 22:44

slmu wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
slmu wrote:
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But Shanthi,Zu .. they say naa.... that when one is in love nothing else matters even ones hurt is forgotten ?? ...everything else ceases to be of any importance ??... may be Aastha is in that kind of love ??
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abuse is abuse whether you put up with it or not.. its not right just because you are in love with the man he does anything to you.. its despicable
So one must love as long as the other person loves us back if not it is not love ?? If the other person really loved you he would not torture/abuse you ...or give you pain am I right ??..So what does Shlok feel for Aastha ?? 
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simple Manu.. would you do this to a person you loved? I have no idea what Shlok feels for Aastha.. probably a satisfaction in ownership that he can do anything and get away with it.
But if the person has a problem like shlok has .. he would behave thus with every girl he comes close to in his life .. he would behave similarly with  the new girl too !!.. should Aastha allow that to happen ?? should she leave shlok alone and go ahead in life leaving him free to trouble/ torture other girls ??
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Post by sarra0 on 2014-07-31, 22:53

slmu wrote:
sarra0 wrote:
zuzana wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
Is it possible for a girl  to love some one so much that the pain suffered due to him  does not hurt her at all ??is love so blind ??she does not want to leave him in spite of everything ??
 scratch  scratch

its not possible to love such a man..u develop such hatred which never can be removed..this is purely illogical stupidity they are showing  Bang Bang 

it is possible, people do...they love that much that they put up wit anything...wat ever torture is dished out..

yes it maybe true.. but doesn't make it right for shows to glamourise such violence.. all the impressionable young girls think its acceptable

completely agree its not right that shows abuse such platforms when they know they r appealing to the young...that becomes there foundation of wat is acceptable...i saw that a number of times during this show...where girls where saying wat niranjan does isn't right but its ok if shlok does something because he loves her...wat a example it set...

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Post by sarra0 on 2014-07-31, 22:57

zuzana wrote:
sarra0 wrote:
zuzana wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
Is it possible for a girl  to love some one so much that the pain suffered due to him  does not hurt her at all ??is love so blind ??she does not want to leave him in spite of everything ??
 scratch  scratch

its not possible to love such a man..u develop such hatred which never can be removed..this is purely illogical stupidity they are showing  Bang Bang 

it is possible, people do...they love that much that they put up wit anything...wat ever torture is dished out..

not if they have the support like aastha had..she had loving parents and she herself was well educated who could go and take help outside or could have just moved out and lived seperately
I think people sometimes put up because they dont receive any support from others...and developing love for someone like that is beyond comprehension...then there must be pshychological problems

but that is different because in that case u have females who know it isn't right, that they should not b treated like that nor would they put up wit it if they had the support of family, parents, friends...i was talking more about the ones who don't c anything wrong in such behaviour, who don't c that it is abuse like aastha...these people r in love and for that love they can't c anything else...anything is forgiven...

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Post by --sumana13-- on 2014-07-31, 23:00

sarra0 wrote:
slmu wrote:
sarra0 wrote:
zuzana wrote:

its not possible to love such a man..u develop such hatred which never can be removed..this is purely illogical stupidity they are showing  Bang Bang 

it is possible, people do...they love that much that they put up wit anything...wat ever torture is dished out..

yes it maybe true.. but doesn't make it right for shows to glamourise such violence.. all the impressionable young girls think its acceptable

completely agree its not right that shows abuse such platforms when they know they r appealing to the young...that becomes there foundation of wat is acceptable...i saw that a number of times during this show...where girls where saying wat niranjan does isn't right but its ok if shlok does something because he loves her...wat a example it set...
Tell me Sarra ... Since Aastha has accepted the man along with his flaws ??
every person has some flaws na .. no one is perfect ... 

See Shlok does not smoke .. he drinks only occasionally .. he does not have a glad eye for other young girls .. he is rich .. he loves her and cares for her too ....so astha should not have any complaints ??
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Post by sarra0 on 2014-07-31, 23:13

--sumana13-- wrote:
sarra0 wrote:
slmu wrote:
sarra0 wrote:

it is possible, people do...they love that much that they put up wit anything...wat ever torture is dished out..

yes it maybe true.. but doesn't make it right for shows to glamourise such violence.. all the impressionable young girls think its acceptable

completely agree its not right that shows abuse such platforms when they know they r appealing to the young...that becomes there foundation of wat is acceptable...i saw that a number of times during this show...where girls where saying wat niranjan does isn't right but its ok if shlok does something because he loves her...wat a example it set...
Tell me Sarra ... Since Aastha has accepted the man along with his flaws ??
every person has some flaws na .. no one is perfect ... 

See Shlok does not smoke .. he drinks only occasionally .. he does not have a glad eye for other young girls .. he is rich .. he loves her and cares for her too ....so astha should not have any complaints ??
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aastha doesn't have complaints v do...manu there r flaws and then there r flaws...wats the point of him not drinking, or smoking if he doesn't know how to treat a women?? the manhandling, the anger, the force he has used is it acceptable because they r shown to b in love...wat niranjan does to anjali is that acceptable?? abuse is abuse regardless of the severity of it...yes this is a show but in reality girls will b watching this and thinking a guy acting like shlok is acceptable...where is the respect, the self respect?

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Post by --sumana13-- on 2014-07-31, 23:21

sarra0 wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
sarra0 wrote:
slmu wrote:

yes it maybe true.. but doesn't make it right for shows to glamourise such violence.. all the impressionable young girls think its acceptable

completely agree its not right that shows abuse such platforms when they know they r appealing to the young...that becomes there foundation of wat is acceptable...i saw that a number of times during this show...where girls where saying wat niranjan does isn't right but its ok if shlok does something because he loves her...wat a example it set...
Tell me Sarra ... Since Aastha has accepted the man along with his flaws ??
every person has some flaws na .. no one is perfect ... 

See Shlok does not smoke .. he drinks only occasionally .. he does not have a glad eye for other young girls .. he is rich .. he loves her and cares for her too ....so astha should not have any complaints ??
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aastha doesn't have complaints v do...manu there r flaws and then there r flaws...wats the point of him not drinking, or smoking if he doesn't know how to treat a women?? the manhandling, the anger, the force he has used is it acceptable because they r shown to b in love...wat niranjan does to anjali is that acceptable?? abuse is abuse regardless of the severity of it...yes this is a show but in reality girls will b watching this and thinking a guy acting like shlok is acceptable...where is the respect, the self respect?
So should one  walk out on the man if he tortures/misbehaves  you even though he loves you with all his heart ??why can't a man be forgiven if he says sorry like Shlok did ??

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Post by sarra0 on 2014-08-01, 00:31

--sumana13-- wrote:
sarra0 wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
sarra0 wrote:

completely agree its not right that shows abuse such platforms when they know they r appealing to the young...that becomes there foundation of wat is acceptable...i saw that a number of times during this show...where girls where saying wat niranjan does isn't right but its ok if shlok does something because he loves her...wat a example it set...
Tell me Sarra ... Since Aastha has accepted the man along with his flaws ??
every person has some flaws na .. no one is perfect ... 

See Shlok does not smoke .. he drinks only occasionally .. he does not have a glad eye for other young girls .. he is rich .. he loves her and cares for her too ....so astha should not have any complaints ??
 scratch  scratch

aastha doesn't have complaints v do...manu there r flaws and then there r flaws...wats the point of him not drinking, or smoking if he doesn't know how to treat a women?? the manhandling, the anger, the force he has used is it acceptable because they r shown to b in love...wat niranjan does to anjali is that acceptable?? abuse is abuse regardless of the severity of it...yes this is a show but in reality girls will b watching this and thinking a guy acting like shlok is acceptable...where is the respect, the self respect?
So should one  walk out on the man if he tortures/misbehaves  you even though he loves you with all his heart ??why can't a man be forgiven if he says sorry like Shlok did ??

in reality?? mayb u can forgive once depending on circumstances...but just because someone says sorry and they love u but then turn around and abuse u again and then say sorry I love u a lot, and then do it again and again it isn't acceptable just because those three words r uttered...

in the show?? they showed aastha falling in love, with shlok pretending to love, then they got married, aastha found out the truth and abuse started...so that's the stage u walk out at if u have self respect...y do u wait long enough and suffer the abuse to get to the stage of sorry???

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Post by zuzana on 2014-08-01, 09:36

--sumana13-- wrote:
sarra0 wrote:
--sumana13-- wrote:
sarra0 wrote:

completely agree its not right that shows abuse such platforms when they know they r appealing to the young...that becomes there foundation of wat is acceptable...i saw that a number of times during this show...where girls where saying wat niranjan does isn't right but its ok if shlok does something because he loves her...wat a example it set...
Tell me Sarra ... Since Aastha has accepted the man along with his flaws ??
every person has some flaws na .. no one is perfect ... 

See Shlok does not smoke .. he drinks only occasionally .. he does not have a glad eye for other young girls .. he is rich .. he loves her and cares for her too ....so astha should not have any complaints ??
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aastha doesn't have complaints v do...manu there r flaws and then there r flaws...wats the point of him not drinking, or smoking if he doesn't know how to treat a women?? the manhandling, the anger, the force he has used is it acceptable because they r shown to b in love...wat niranjan does to anjali is that acceptable?? abuse is abuse regardless of the severity of it...yes this is a show but in reality girls will b watching this and thinking a guy acting like shlok is acceptable...where is the respect, the self respect?
So should one  walk out on the man if he tortures/misbehaves  you even though he loves you with all his heart ??why can't a man be forgiven if he says sorry like Shlok did ??

noone in love will man handle the person they are in love with...even a small scratch they would get terrified thts love..if inflicitng pain then there is no love

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Post by --sumana13-- on 2014-08-01, 14:05

HUgs Sarra & Zu .. you girls made me thoughtful now 

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